记忆的橡皮擦

何为朋友?一朋友给了段对朋友的若干定义。
朋友就是 ......
Accepts you as you are.接受原本的你
Believes in "you" 相信你这个人
Calls you just to say "Hi" 打电话给你就 想说声"嗨"
Doesn't give up on you. 从不放弃对你的信心
Envisions the whole of you.能完整地预想你
Forgives your mistakes.原谅你的过错
Give unconditionally. 无条件地给予
Helps you. 帮助你
Invites you over.邀请你
Just "be" with you. 靠近你
Keeps you close at heart. 与你心连心
Loves you for who you are.因你原来的样子而爱你
Makes a diffevence in yout life .
Never judges.不对你品头论足
Offers support.支持你
Picks you up.扶你一把
Quiets your fears.止息人的惧怕
Raises your spirits.鼓舞你的心灵
Says nice things about you.跟别人述说你好的那一面.
Tells you the truch when you need to hear it.当需要时会告诉你实情.
Understands you. 懂你
Values you. 看重你
Walks beside you.与你同行
X-plain things you don't understand.解你的疑惑
Yells when you wont's listen.在你听不下时会大吼一声
Zaps you back to reality.把你拉回现实.
    按上述定义，能满足上述定义中的一半就已经是很困难的事情了，一个人能有的朋友就真的是凤毛麟角的很了。
    不过，朋友不在于多，贵在真诚，上述定义用在一般的朋友未免有点过于苛刻，但是对于甄别好友还是有相当价值的。